Private One-on-One Anger Management in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel — For Inner Strength, Prevention, and Advancement
Behavioral Concepts and Advancement is the personal-growth track of New Jersey Anger Management Group: private, one-on-one anger management for people who want it for themselves — for inner strength, for prevention, for advancement in a career, a marriage, a family, or a life that anger has been quietly running. You work directly with our executive director, an anger management clinician who is also a retired family and criminal law attorney, an entrepreneur, a divorced father who rebuilt, a native New Yorker and son of immigrants who came from nothing — not a one-dimensional therapist who will not speak straight. Custom lessons written for your life, one-on-one sessions seven days a week from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m., text access between, and a focus on the anger and on moving forward. For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger: this page.

Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel — Quick Answer
If you only read this box: this is anger management you do for yourself, with someone who has actually lived through the things that make people angry — law, business, divorce, fatherhood, coming from nothing — and who will tell you plainly what he sees, without judgment. Custom lessons plus one-on-one sessions (3, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 or more customized lessons paired with one-on-one sessions, set after an assessment), seven days a week, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern, thirty-five to sixty-five minutes each, no more than two a week, text access between, by Zoom or phone. We acknowledge your past; we work on your anger and your next move. For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger: no insurance, no waiting, text ENROLL to 201-205-3201.
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What you get — Behavioral Concepts and Advancement
FormatOne on one with the executive director, by Zoom or phone (in person in Jersey City by arrangement). Never a group.ProgramAssessment first, then 3, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 or more customized lessons paired with one-on-one sessions, set after an assessment. Two-fold: custom lessons written for what you are dealing with, plus tools to manage the anger attached to it.Sessions35–65 minutes depending on topics, issues, program length, and spacing; no more than two one-on-ones a week so the teachings resonate.Availabilityseven days a week, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern; appointments outside those hours by arrangement; no waiting to start; the director is available by text between sessions during normal hours.FocusAnger and moving forward — the past acknowledged and discussed, not dwelt on. Psychoeducational, not therapy.Payment and paperworkNo insurance; direct pay, flat by length. Enrollment and completion documentation available for work, licensing, or court, under either of our names.
Behavioral Concepts and Advancement is a program of New Jersey Anger Management Group. It is a private psychoeducational program and is not psychotherapy, medical or mental health treatment, or a batterers intervention program, and does not give legal advice. If you are in crisis or need clinical care, contact a licensed provider or emergency services.
Anger Management in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel — Who Comes to Us, and Why
The Navesink and Holmdel towns are where Wall Street and the Jersey Shore meet — ferry commuters, executives, contractors who built the houses, and families who came for the water and the schools. The anger here tends to be seasonal and social: the summer that is supposed to be relaxing and is not, the marriage that shows cracks at the club, the father who is too intense at the lacrosse field. It is a small world, and people would rather handle it privately than be the subject of a conversation at the marina.
Behavioral Concepts and Advancement handles it privately: one on one, by Zoom or phone, with a retired family and criminal law attorney and mediator who spent fifteen years in the Freehold courthouse, built a business, went through a divorce, and rebuilt as a father. Lessons customized to your life; sessions of thirty-five to sixty-five minutes seven days a week from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m., no more than two a week; text access between. Choose 3, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 or more lessons after the assessment. No insurance, no waiting, no judgment.
Who you will be working with
For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, every session is with our executive director — not a rotating staff member, not a group facilitator. He is an anger management clinician and a retired New Jersey family and criminal law attorney: a former public defender, a family mediator named to Best Lawyers in America, a man who spent fifteen years beside people at the worst moments of their lives in courtrooms across the state. He is also an entrepreneur who built a company from nothing, a native New Yorker and New Jersey transplant, the son of immigrants who started with less than nothing, and a father of two who went through a divorce after seventeen years of marriage and rebuilt his life and his relationship with his children. He does not read from a manual. He does not speak in clinical hedges. He does not judge — there is nothing about someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger he has not heard in court or lived himself. He speaks straight, and he focuses on what you can change.
The Two-Fold Approach: Custom Lessons for Your Life, Tools for Your Anger
Two things happen in this program for someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, on purpose. One: you get lessons written for you — not a generic workbook — after the director assesses your situation in the first session. If your anger lives in your marriage, the lessons are about your marriage. If it lives at work, they are about work. If it is attached to a divorce, a layoff, a father you are trying not to become, that is what they address. Two: you get tools to manage the anger in the moment — practical, repeatable, grounded in REBT and CBT — and you practice them in one-on-one sessions until they are yours.
Sessions are thirty-five to sixty-five minutes, by Zoom or phone, seven days a week, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern, with appointments outside those hours arranged when needed. Never more than two a week, so the teaching has time to resonate. Between sessions, the director is a text away during normal hours. For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, you choose 3, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 or more customized lessons paired with one-on-one sessions, set after an assessment.
Custom lessons — what you are dealing with
- Written by the director after your assessment, for your situation
- The marriage, the kids, the job, the divorce, the family you came from
- Worked through between sessions, on your schedule
- Grounded in REBT and CBT, written in plain English
Tools — the anger attached to it
- The interval between the trigger and the response
- Scripts for the moment you would otherwise escalate
- How to leave, how to reset, how to come back
- Practiced one on one until they are yours
The Benefits of Anger Management — When You Do It for Yourself
What the anger is usually attached to
The anger is the loudest thing; it is rarely the first. Part of every program is naming what it is riding on — and for someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger the lessons are written around exactly that.
Prevention Tools You Will Leave With
A sample of what the sessions build, adapted to your triggers and your life:
Not therapy. Not the past. Not a group. We acknowledge where the anger came from — and for someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, we will talk about it — but we do not spend months there. The focus of Behavioral Concepts and Advancement is anger: how it works in your body and your judgment, where it shows up in your life, what it is attached to, and how to move forward with a better perspective and real tools to manage the emotions that can otherwise run your life. It is psychoeducational, not psychotherapy; if you need clinical treatment, we will say so plainly.
From the Text to the First Session
- Text ENROLL. No forms, no intake queue, no waiting list.
- Assessment, then your plan: 3, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 or more customized lessons paired with one-on-one sessions, set after an assessment.
- Lessons + sessions, seven days a week, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern, thirty-five to sixty-five minutes each, never more than two a week.
- Text the director when something happens between sessions.
- Finish with tools you own — and paperwork, if you need it, for someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger.
Getting back to work, back to court, or back on track: the same program provides enrollment and completion documentation whenever it is needed — an enrollment letter the same day, progress reports, and a Certificate of Completion plus a Completion Letter from a retired attorney that employers, licensing boards, and courts accept. Available under either of our names. For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, nothing changes about the program; only the paperwork is added.
You Are Not Your Worst Moment
Anger makes people believe the last outburst is who they are. It is not; it is a pattern, and patterns change. For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, this program treats you as an adult with a habit to break and a life to advance — not a case, not a diagnosis, not a problem. No judgment, no shame, no theatrics.
Every Google Review We Have Ever Received: Five Stars
Read what clients say about working one on one with the director before you decide — the reviews are on Google, and they describe the same thing this page does.
“New Jersey Anger Management Group is the best. Mr. Santos is very knowledgeable about his job. These classes and sessions are one-on-one where he can find the root of the issue and address that. I learned so much in my time in his class — things that I will use in my daily life to handle any obstacle. Thank you NJAMG.”
Verified Google review · Google review · ★★★★★
“I had an excellent experience with the New Jersey Anger Management Group and my instructor. From the very beginning, the program was professional, structured, and genuinely helpful. The instructor created a supportive environment where I felt comfortable learning and growing. The sessions were very insightful and focused on practical tools such as understanding anger triggers. This program has given me tools that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.”
Verified Google review · Google review · ★★★★★
ALL 50 STATES
SINCE 2012
Started in Jersey City. Serving New Jersey, and Everywhere Else.
New Jersey Anger Management Group was founded in 2012 by Santo V. Artusa Jr., J.D., C.A.M.T. — a Rutgers Law graduate, former public defender, and family-law mediator named to Best Lawyers in America, who retired from practice to do this full time. Behavioral Concepts and Advancement is the track he built for people who come on their own — for someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger — the same one-on-one program courts in all fifty states have accepted, without the court. Clients in New Jersey, New York, Connecticut, Pennsylvania, California, Ohio, Idaho, and beyond work with him by Zoom and phone, seven days a week, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern.
Manejo de la ira para su propio crecimiento — ayuda en español
Behavioral Concepts and Advancement es el programa privado de manejo de la ira para quienes lo eligen por sí mismos — para su fortaleza interior, prevención y avance en su matrimonio, su familia o su carrera. Trabaja uno a uno con nuestro director ejecutivo — abogado retirado de derecho de familia y penal, empresario, padre de dos hijos, hijo de inmigrantes — con lecciones personalizadas y sesiones por Zoom o teléfono los siete días de la semana de 8 a.m. a 8 p.m. Sin seguro, sin espera, sin juicios. Para Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel: envíe ENROLL por texto al 201-205-3201.
Questions People Ask Before They Text
Do I need a court order or a referral to enroll?
No. Behavioral Concepts and Advancement is built for people who choose anger management for themselves — for prevention, inner strength, and advancement. For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, you text ENROLL to 201-205-3201, hold an assessment this week, and start. If you also need documentation for work or a court, it is included.
Who runs the sessions?
For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, our executive director, every time — an anger management clinician who is also a retired New Jersey family and criminal law attorney, a former public defender, a family mediator named to Best Lawyers in America, an entrepreneur, a native New Yorker and son of immigrants, and a divorced father of two who rebuilt. He writes your lessons, runs your sessions, and answers your texts.
Can this program be used for work, a license, or a court?
Yes. For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, the same program provides enrollment and completion documentation when you need it: an enrollment letter the same day, progress reports, and a Certificate of Completion with a Completion Letter written by the director, a retired attorney, in language employers, licensing boards, and courts accept — issued under Behavioral Concepts and Advancement or New Jersey Anger Management Group.
How fast can I start?
For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, this week. There is no waiting list; the assessment is scheduled the day you text ENROLL, seven days a week, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern.
Can I reach the director between sessions?
Yes. He makes himself available by text during normal hours for the moments that happen between sessions — the argument, the email you almost sent, the question you did not think of until later. For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, that access is often where the real change happens.
How many sessions will I need?
After the assessment you choose 3, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 or more customized lessons paired with one-on-one sessions, set after an assessment. Three or four is a focused tune-up for a specific pattern; eight to twelve or more is the full program for someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger when the anger is attached to a marriage, a career, or a major life change. The director will tell you plainly what he recommends.
Is it in person or online?
For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, by Zoom or phone, seven days a week, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern, from anywhere — Connecticut, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, or any other state. In-person sessions can sometimes be arranged at our Jersey City office.
More From Behavioral Concepts and Advancement
Cost for someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger. One flat fee for the program length you choose after the assessment, everything included, quoted up front by text. No insurance. Payment plans on request; sliding scale when possible.
One Guide. Custom Lessons. Real Tools. No Judgment.
You have already paid for your anger in ways you can name. For someone in Rumson, Red Bank, and Holmdel who wants to get ahead of their anger, the program is cheaper than the next one. Text ENROLL to 201-205-3201.
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Behavioral Concepts and Advancement · New Jersey Anger Management Group · 97 Newkirk Street, 2nd Floor, Jersey City, NJ 07306 · (201) 205-3201 · njangermgt@pm.me · Founded 2012 · Serving all 50 states. Behavioral Concepts and Advancement is a program of New Jersey Anger Management Group. It is a private psychoeducational program and is not psychotherapy, medical or mental health treatment, or a batterers intervention program, and does not give legal advice. If you are in crisis or need clinical care, contact a licensed provider or emergency services.
